Thank You, Thank You, Thank You! You’re FAR Too Kind!

Last night I got the best surprise I’ve had in a while!

My sister called me and said she had an extra Jay-Z ticket and I could go with her if I wanted! *SCORE!!!* (Shout out to the big sister for making good things rain on me this week!) I didn’t even mind standing outside in the rain as I waited for her while she was stuck in traffic on her way from DC to Baltimore. I was going to see HOV who cares if I’m wet!!

I came home from the concert last night and tweeted this :

“I have no energy to get undressed and ready for bed… Jay wore me out!! He got me more excited than most sex I’ve had this year! … :-/”

Sadly, it’s true… The concert was so amazing. I didn’t sit down once! We missed Wale who was one part of the opening act, but were in time to see Pharell and N.E.R.D. All of this culminated into the best sex I’ve had all year and I didn’t even have to take my clothes off or fake the excitement! Granted, this “drought” is self-induced, but the few times I did do “the grown up” it usually didn’t get me there… ::Big Siiigh:: maybe the next time I get intimate I’ll blast some Jay in the background. Just an idea.

Anyway, THANKS again to my sister for bringing me along. I green with envy all day from everyone tweeting about the concert and I just KNEW I wasn’t going! But I did, and for FREE.99 at that! ❤ !

(shout out to MSU for being DEEP in the arena last night! Felt something like homecoming again, lol)


Bottles and Models. . . and Poles


Who knew that people over 30 REALLY knew how to party?? I had sooo much fun this weekend with my sister and her friends celebrating her birthday! I won’t put her age out there on the blogisphere though.

The night started with a pole party with a professional instructor showing us how to keep our men happy. . . or in my case attract one! I learned that even my petite ass can in fact “clap”… LMAO… good food & good company.  THEN there was the party bus, equipped with more poles (uhh do you see the theme?)! I must admit I got caught up in the excitement and took a few pics spinning around the pole… hopefully those don’t surface to ruin my impending political career! (actually this blog might do that on it’s own, smh) Drinks were flowing, just to take us to the club down the block. Once inside, we received VIP treatment… there were SO many bottles being popped at her table, I’m sure I would have had a hangover even if I didn’t indulge in the fuckery! Did I mention it was also Howard Homecoming so DC was extra live with HU alumni all over the place (my sis being one of them).

Some drunken short dude accosted my airspace with his outrageous breath and one of my sister’s guy friends came to my rescue. He would not take no for an answer! Sorry dude, I’m not giving you my number!

Anyway, I didn’t get home until 5:30 in the AM and I’m sure if my girl didn’t have to be at work an hour later, we would have been in DC until the sun came up. You know winter is approaching and the sun doesn’t come up until like 7:00 now. LoL

Anyway that was Saturday, REWIND to Friday night… I was caught up in the most confusing text message conversations of my year with this dude… hmm I guess I’ll keep my promise and keep him out of my blog, but let me just say this: You were wildin’ and I’m not really sure why you seem to be so emotional, but it’s not attractive, and it’s pretty annoying!

I don’t like when people project what they THINK I mean onto what I’m actually saying. . . really I’m the type of person who says what I mean, and I’m honest. So, I find it frustrating when I feel like I’m trying to prove to someone that that’s who I really am. It drives me nuts. Don’t look for hidden messages in my words. There may be certain situations in which I do not talk a lot, but that doesn’t mean I’m being sneaky, it just means I don’t have anything to say, or I’m not ready to let you know what’s on my mind yet. But believe that when I do have something to say, it will be genuine. . . and that is all I have to say about THAT!

Annnd on Sunday I actually laid in my bed the ENTIRE day trying to recover from Saturday! Is it possible that I’m still hungover and it’s Monday afternoon?? I really only left my bed after 7pm because I decided that eating that day would be beneficial. So I went alll the way to my second favorite pizza shop to get some pasta, got home and realized they gave me the WRONG order! I was kinda pissed, so I went allll the way back and they gave me a FREE cannoli (I don’t complain about anything free!) with my correct order. I don’t even eat cannolis but it was so pretty! I can’t get with the white creamy stuff that isn’t frosting in my mouth… It’s too much. LoL! Things with a consistency that reminds me of “other things” is a no go for me. tee hee…

Anyway! That’s my whole weekend. . . how was yours??

(P.S. I’m not really a sports fan but uhhh, GO YANKEES!! That’s solely because of the New Yorker in me)


Soo. . . I haven’t posted anything new that I’ve written in a while. But don’t fret, I’ll post something soon (maybe today)! I’ve been working on a few things.

Today I brought back my ponytail! I was in ponytail rehab for almost 2 years. I decided to bring her back for a one day appearance!

Found out last week that my “ex” has a new boo (girlfriend) . . . he downgraded in my opinion, but I guess every chick feels she’s better than the next chick right? So I’m trying not to hate. But you already know you can expect a post about it!! LoL

I did go on that date this weekend! It was good. . . but that’s all I can say, cuz I promised I wouldn’t blog about him! LoL It really wasn’t blog worthy anyway. I specialize in relationship DON’Ts and the date was a DO… so he hasn’t earned a place in my posts, which is a great thing! LoL

Anyway, I miss you all! Don’t forget about me, I’m coming back soon I PROMISE!

Oh yeah, if you are planning on going on the WINTER WEEKEND EXTRAVAGANZA Ski Trip (click link if you don’t know what I’m talking about), the first deposit is due  this weekend! Don’t miss out cuz I wanna party with you all 😉


ski trip pic

I think this might be the move for my 26th birthday!

I have an awesome group of friends who also happen to be party promotors. They go by R.S. Entertainment (don’t ask what the R.S. stands for. . . you wouldn’t get it, LoL).  I always have a great time at all of their events.

Last year they hosted a Ski Trip on my birthday weekend. But my pockets wouldn’t allow me to go. That, and I couldn’t muster up a boo (as usual) to go with me! I regret not just rounding up a group of my girls and just spending the money to go because EVERYONE who went said it was awesome. I feel like I’m gonna be left out of a few “inside jokes” forever now! LoL it’s okay though, cuz I’m going this time!

Really, the price is definitely NOT BAD for what’s included: Two nights stay at the resort,  transportation (from DC and Baltimore),  4 meals at the all you can eat buffet, Trey Songz, Music Soulchild & Chrisette Michele in concert and most importantly a 12 hour PREMIUM OPEN BAR! Plus plenty of other activities once you get there.

Sooo, this is where I’ll be for my birthday in February  2010… not that long from now.

Check out their website for more info on the trip:

And if you’re going, don’t forget to mention to them that you heard about it here at FRENCH KISSEZ !!